Dealing with Challenging Behaviour in Dementia

If you have a loved one who is living with dementia, you are likely aware that the condition can lead to a change in behaviour. In fact, these changes can be one of the first signs of the condition. Dementia care is important, especially as your loved one progresses through the stages of the illness. Care at home is an option, however, you need to be aware of the changes you will see and how to deal with them as well as where you can find help. So, read on to find out more about how to deal with challenging behaviour in dementia.

What changes might you see?

There is a range of challenging behaviours that you might see as dementia starts to progress in your loved one. This can be a tough time as it is very confusing and distressing, however, you can help your loved one by being prepared and knowing how to deal with this when it occurs. Some of the behaviours that you might see include:
· Repeating one activity or asking one question repeatedly
· Acting restlessly, pacing, wandering around and fidgeting
· Waking up during the night and disturbed sleep
· Following a partner around
· Losing self-confidence
· Disinterest in activities they previously enjoyed

What are the causes?

One of the first things you need to do is try to understand what is behind some of these changes. This can help you to be prepared and deal with the change in behaviour. For example, not all changes in behaviour are direct dementia symptoms. They could be caused by the frustration of not being able to communicate. It could also be the result of confusion around their environment as it stops being familiar. If the changes come on very suddenly however, it could be a result of pain or discomfort and you should go to the GP.

How to cope with behaviour changes

There are a few things that can help you to cope with the more challenging behaviours that your loved one starts to present. Here are a few of the things you could try.

1. Identify triggers

The easiest way to get challenging behaviours under control is to identify any triggers that are setting off the behaviours. Some of the things you should look out for are challenging behaviours happening at a similar time of day, as a result of loud noises or clutter, or in response to being asked to do something that they do not want to do. Take notes for a few weeks to see if you can spot a pattern and find any triggers so that you can prevent the challenging behaviour from happening.

2. Provide reassurance

Doing your best to keep the environment quiet and calming is one of the easiest ways to reassure your loved one. The relaxed atmosphere will help to avoid confusion and distress, reducing challenging behaviour and making things easier for both you and your loved one.

3. Activities

Simple activities that your loved one enjoys can help to calm them and provide a boost in confidence. Try setting up activities such as listening to music or dancing, or other simple activities that your loved one likes. Other activities include art or massage therapy.

4. Outside help

Finally, it is important to remember that you are not alone. If you are struggling to keep up with challenging behaviours, do not be afraid to go to your GP or find other professional help such as a home or carer who can help.

Who can help?

Here at Right at Home Bromley, we are a local home care provider offering home care to older people in Bromley, Kent. We are dedicated to providing quality care and are always sure to put your loved one first. If you are having trouble looking after your loved one as their dementia progresses, we can help. We offer specialised dementia care so that you can rest assured your loved one is safe and well looked after. This takes the stress and burden off of you and ensures that both you and your loved one can enjoy your time together.
We cover Bromley, Beckenham, Orpington, Chislehurst and West Wickham.